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Congratulations! You have decided to start your own online business! That's great. There are many online money making opportunities that you are going to be able to take advantage of. I know how you feel right now and what you have done up to this point. You are eager to get started, you can't wait. You have already done some research and it seems that you are pretty sure that you know which way you want to go. You have a detailed checklist that will allow you to get to a fast and organized start. You have set realistic goals that will help you focus on what you need to get done and how long will it take you. You have calculated your budget and know exactly how to spend your money to achieve the best results. That's awesome! It seems that you have done a great deal of important preparation that will allow you to launch your business successfully.

    This article introduces the problem-solving model as a technique for managing performance issues that are more controversial, or that are not effectively addressed through coaching or feedback. Issues such as tardiness, being out of uniform, continual poor performance, and others are best handled by a direct, objective approach. By following the Problem Solving Dialogue Model taught in this article, you can feel confident in addressing these thorny issues with employees.

Problem solving sounds so simple. However, we know it isn't as simple as it seems. Employees don't behave as we hope they would. Problem solving conversations are the ones we all tend to - or want to - avoid. Why? Because we fear - or are concerned about - how the employees may react. In a minute we will find ways to overcome these challenging situations.

Miracles are your responsibility! What does that mean? Simple...You have a responsibility to create miracles in your own life. The responsibility lies on your shoulders. You can't blame anyone else, and you can't look outside of yourself for someone else to create the miracles for you. In this article, I'm going to break down the word "Miracle", because each of you have a responsibility. As you know, my Why is to impact others and change the world one heart at a time. As you read this today, my goal is for you to take responsibility and realize that you have the innate ability to create miracles. So let's get started!

The letter "M" means Momentum, which is created by you. You must create Momentum in your life for yourself, for your Why, for your family, for your success, for your finances, for your health...

Coaching is perhaps the most effective method of increasing performance available to managers, team leaders, and colleagues. This article defines coaching and outlines a process for effective coaching.

Coaching Defined

Coaching is perhaps the most effective method of increasing performance available to managers, team leaders, and colleagues.

If you wish to improve the skills of your employees, you must plan to observe them and provide them with feedback. If you're like most supervisors or managers, you have limited time and are looking for employees to become proficient – and independent – faster.

Big thoughts and big actions. Do them together and you can certainly make your dreams come alive. This process is simple and direct, as you just need to apply the law of manifestation.

The size of your thinking determines the greatness you are going to achieve in life. Think small and you will live small. The guts and dare to think big, you are going to achieve a whole new level of results. Dream of a small car in life then that's what you are going to receive. Desire more and willing to work to get that more, you are going to get more.

Apabila anda berencana ke Luar Negeri, hati-hati jangan sampai tidak memiliki NPWP. Apabila anda tidak memiliki NPWP siap-siap membayar fiskal Rp. 2,5 juta per orang. Nah, bandingkan apabila anda memiliki NPWP, kewajiban fiskal anda menjadi Rp. 0,- . Oleh karena perbandingannya menurut logika saya sangat signifikan untuk penghematan duit bagi yg belum memiliki sebaiknya anda saat ini mengurus NPWP, cukup NPWP PRIBADI. Toh sebentar lagi NPWP harus dimiliki oleh setiap warga negara Indonesia. Karena ID keWNIan akan menjadi satu ID yang disertai NPWP. Apalagi dalam program pemutihan NPWP ini tidak diperlukan memiliki Akte Badan Usaha , bahkan tidak perlu punya HO dan SIUP terlebih dulu. Kali ini caranya sangat mudah, sebagai berikut ini;

1. Jika KTP anda status pekerjaan WIRASWASTA dapat mengajukan permohonan NPWP badan usaha. Jika tidak, berarti masuk NPWP perseorangan/pribadi. Ini tidak masalah ! Yang penting punya NPWP.

2. Siapkan copy KTP anda cukup 1 lembar, bawa ke kantor pajak di mana anda berdomisili.

3. Sebelum datang ke kantor pajak hendaknya telpon dulu ke kantor pajak tersebut, tanyakan apakah mengeluarkan kartu elektrik (semacam kartu ATM) atau tidak. Perhatikan dengan benar, karena tidak semua kantor pajak mengeluarkan atau dapat melayani pemutihan NPWP ini.

4. Jika anda mendaftar NPWP di mal-mal, NPWP anda tidak bisa langsung on line. Alias anda harus kerja dua kali, pergi ke kantor pajak melakukan VALIDASI/aktivasi. Jadi musti ngantri lagi.

5. Perhatikan; mengurus NPWP saat ini gratis 100%. Di proses dalam waktu CUKUP 24 jam. Tapi bisa saja hanya perlu waktu antara 30 menit - 2 jam sudah beres. Tergantung banyaknya masyarakat yg mengajukan aplikasi. Tapi jangan salah, 24 jam adalah hitungan waktu kerja, alias 3 hari :)

6. Oh ya, bagi yang mengisi aplikasi NPWP untuk jenis badan usaha,  jangan lupa menyiapkan materai Rp. 6000,-. Bagi yg mengaplikasi NPWP pribadi tidak perlu meterai

Monggo segera manfaatkan kesempatan mudah mendapat NPWP dalam program pemutihan NPWP; karena di tahun 2009 ke depan NPWP sangat bermanfaat sekali bukan untuk negara saja, tetapi untuk semua warga karena antara lain bermanfaat mempermudah segala urusan fiskal anda.

Semoga bermanfaat


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The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, fourth edition, text revision [American Psychiatric Association. DSM-IV-TR, Washington, 2000] - or the DSM-IV-TR for short - describes Axis II personality disorders as "deeply ingrained, maladaptive, lifelong behavior patterns". But the classificatory model the DSM has been using since 1952 is harshly criticized as woefully inadequate by many scholars and practitioners.
The DSM is categorical. It states that personality disorders are "qualitatively distinct clinical syndromes" (p. 689). But this is by no means widely accepted. As we saw in my previous article and blog entry, the professionals cannot even agree on what constitutes "normal" and how to distinguish it from the "disordered" and the "abnormal". The DSM does not provide a clear "threshold" or "critical mass" beyond which the subject should be considered mentally ill.

Moreover, the DSM's diagnostic criteria are ploythetic. In other words, suffice it to satisfy only a subset of the criteria to diagnose a personality disorder. Thus, people diagnosed with the same personality disorder may share only one criterion or none. This diagnostic heterogeneity (great variance) is unacceptable and non-scientific.

In another article we deal with the five diagnostic axes employed by the DSM to capture the way clinical syndromes (such as anxiety, mood, and eating disorders), general medical conditions, psychosocial and environmental problems, chronic childhood and developmental problems, and functional issues interact with personality disorders.
Yet, the DSM's "laundry lists" obscure rather than clarify the interactions between the various axes. As a result, the differential diagnoses that are supposed to help us distinguish one personality disorder from all others, are vague. In psych-parlance: the personality disorders are insufficiently demarcated. This unfortunate state of affairs leads to excessive co-morbidity: multiple personality disorders diagnosed in the same subject. Thus, psychopaths (Antisocial Personality Disorder) are often also diagnosed as narcissists (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) or borderlines (Borderline Personality Disorder).

The DSM also fails to distinguish between personality, personality traits, character, temperament, personality styles (Theodore Millon's contribution) and full-fledged personality disorders. It does not accommodate personality disorders induced by circumstances (reactive personality disorders, such as Milman's proposed "Acquired Situational Narcissism"). Nor does it efficaciously cope with personality disorders that are the result of medical conditions (such as brain injuries, metabolic conditions, or protracted poisoning). The DSM had to resort to classifying some personality disorders as NOS "not otherwise specified", a catchall, meaningless, unhelpful, and dangerously vague diagnostic "category".

One of the reasons for this dismal taxonomy is the dearth of research and rigorously documented clinical experience regarding both the disorders and various treatment modalities. Read this week's article to learn about the DSM's other great failing: many of the personality disorders are "culture-bound". They reflect social and contemporary biases, values, and prejudices rather than authentic and invariable psychological constructs and entities.

The DSM-IV-TR distances itself from the categorical model and hints at the emergence of an alternative: the dimensional approach:
"An alternative to the categorical approach is the dimensional perspective that Personality Disorders represent maladaptive variants of personality traits that merge imperceptibly into normality and into one another" (p.689)

According to the deliberations of the DSM V Committee, the next edition of this work of reference (due to be published in 2010) will tackle these long neglected issues:

The longitudinal course of the disorder(s) and their temporal stability from early childhood onwards;

The genetic and biological underpinnings of personality disorder(s);

The development of personality psychopathology during childhood and its emergence in adolescence;

The interactions between physical health and disease and personality disorders;

The effectiveness of various treatments - talk therapies as well as psychopharmacology.

Those who fail, follow the laws of failure.
Those who succeed, follow the laws of success.

It is impossible to reach success with a scheme of failure thoughts in your mind.

It's impossible to have good health with a scheme of illness thoughts.

Your behavior is directed by your thoughts.
Thoughts of failure, disease, loneliness and fear push you into a behavior which leads you directly to fail, become ill, feel lonely and fearful!

You can deny this principle or fight against it, you can believe it is not true or it doesn't apply to you, but you will never be able to escape from it.

These principles govern all creation, also the creation of your life.
The experiences of your life start in your head.
And it's exactly there where your power lies : in your thoughts!

The universe will give you health, if you learn to think in terms of health, not illness.
You will have success if you think in terms of success, not failure.

Everything you think about repeatedly will manifest one day or another.

So why not think of what you want, instead of what you don't want?

In either way you will get what you asked for! So ask for good things by thinking of
good things.

If you have an appointment with the dentist and you are afraid, do this : picture yourself in the dentist chair, visualize a great white light enveloping you, and say : "Only healing hands touch me". Picture yourself there in the future having a good relaxing time, totally safe in the hands of someone who helps you to heal from a pain at your teeth

If you have an appointment for a job interview, picture yourself there in the room. What clothes do you wear? How is your hair? What perfume did you choose that morning? Visualize yourself filled with confidence. You talk fluently, you are sure of yourself and your talents are obvious.

You have a visit from your parents? You're exhausted only by the idea? Change your idea! Picture yourself inviting your parents, opening the door, being calm and open-minded, spending a wonderful time with them. See yourself talking with your parents, they are listening, you listen to them, you stay centered on yourself, you are able to stay yourself in their presence. You feel how you love them and you feel their love for you.

Try this! And see what happens! It's all in the mind! It's in our thoughts we create our life.
Even if you're not conscious about this process, you use it anyway all the time. Every moment you have an idea in your head about what is going to happen. Or you think about something from your past, which you project on your future. You always have ideas in your head. Now that you know your thoughts create your life, which thoughts do you choose? Those who you want to see manifested? Take care of your thoughts, and the rest will follow!
Think success, act like someone who is successful and success will come, without any doubt!