Confidence is art. If you do not feel confident, then you can be confident. If you're feeling confident, then you can become more confident.
Confidence is dynamic, he can go up and down, changing and evolving. What you need to do, is keeping it at optimal levels and healthy.
FOR ANY, YOU HAVE TO SPEAK
In any activity you do, you will perform the following three things:
1. Lead; 2. Sell; 3. Presenting.
In fact, you might even do all three at once. If you're leading, then you definitely are selling something to be followed by those you lead. And in doing so, you will serve or present the various things that are relevant.
If you're selling something, you are working on the lead, so that your prospects will make decisions according to what you want as the party selling. And once again, you must present relevant matters.
If you're a presentation, then you can be sure is to sell something. And because you're trying to sell something, then you are definitely trying to lead the audience, to listen to you, so listen to your presentation, in order to understand the intent and purpose, and that convinced the purpose of your presentation.
In doing all the above activities, the most common media that you will use is the alias of spoken verbal communication.
Estuary of all that activity, or the end result of all that activity, will be largely determined by the quality of your speech. Before you get to technical issues such as the structure of speech, intonation, style of language or even choice of words and sentences, fundamental aspects of the quality of your speech is your current level of confidence to do it.
In short, you must sow the aura of self confidence when speaking. Because that's where all the final result will be determined. So, your starting point for all that activity, is to gain self-confidence is better.
Here is a compilation of various reasons to be confident, collected from the experts of management, leadership, communication and motivation.
HARDINESS
If you believe in yourself, then you will be more resistant to various pressures, due to have a foothold and I think a solid and strong.
If you believe in yourself, then you will be better able to deal with variations of personal situations, social and business are more stringent and harder lately.
If you believe in yourself, then you will be more resistant to dealing with others who are increasingly critical. Remember that the pressure is getting stronger not only experienced by yourself, but also by any other person living with you in this world.
If you believe in yourself, then you will be better able to deal with other people who increasingly harder and more annoying it is not impossible.
If you believe in yourself, then you will be better able to deal with a realistic and objective appreciation.
In the end, if you believe in yourself, then you will have more control over various situations and circumstances that are essential for whatever your interests.
Your Confidence is built by practicing to control things. With the level of confidence that the better, would you be better able to control things. With confidence is higher, you will be able to control various aspects of your life.
By being able to control various aspects of your self, you will more clearly in view and manage your personal goals and objectives. With the clarity of your goals and objectives, then you will be better able to direct your behavior toward your success.
CAPACITY TO KNOW YOURSELF
With confidence, you will understand the ins and outs and the level of capacity you have. By knowing the capacity of self, you will be able to perform a SWOT analysis for your personal self.
By understanding aspects of SWOT of yourself, then you will know exactly where to start and where it will end.
SUCCESS ORIENTED
With confidence, you shift the focus away from the trap of fear of failure and loss, the outlook is optimistic about the opportunities and success. You will be a success oriented.
With confidence, you will not feel quite simply with 'positive thinking', but more than that, you will require 'positive knowing. "
By 'positive knowing', you will become an expert in his field. You will be the expert, experts and specialists. That is the way to your success.
QUALITY IMPROVEMENT OF NETWORKING
With confidence, you will improve the quality of your personality. With the increase of your personality, then you also will raise the quality of 'relationship' you.
A leader or a businessman or an official who started from the bottom, then continue climbing to a certain degree in their field, not only associated with people underneath. More than that, he also will improve the quality of networking to a higher level and broader.
He will be involved with people who are also higher quality, higher skills, and better level of confidence. With it, believing he would be increased. And with it all, the chances of success will also increase.
With confidence, you will meet a more pleasant person, a better quality, better educated people, people who prefer to give a chance and opportunity, people are more attractive, and people are more enjoyable for you to relate to them.
CONTROL TEMPERAMENT BETTER
In the social sciences, there is the term 'legal correspondence', which says that the 'outside world' outside yourself, is a perfect mirror of the 'world' within you.
Believe in yourself you must start from within. And if you managed to improve the quality of 'world' you, the 'outside world' will follow.
If you managed to achieve success with confidence, then success will also occur on the 'outside world' you. If you managed to achieve self-confidence, then you are a big chance for success in personal life, social life, education life, world and business world your career.
The success achieved self-confidence, then success get control of personal temperament. That means, you also have a great opportunity to control temper 'outside world' you.
Remember this:
- Beautiful moon is in your heart;
- View of the sky and the ocean and the stars, there are in your eyes. The limit also, depending on the quality of your vision;
- The heat of the sun and fire, is on your skin;
- The stench of this world, there in your nose;
- Spicy and hot chili pepper, is on your tongue;
- The world and everything in it, there is within you.
If you have control over yourself, then you deserve the temperament to control the world and everything in it. Friendly or not of this world to you, specify your own.
And to achieve it, start by trusting yourself. God has created you perfectly, and He wants you to believe it.
SELF SABOTAGE EFFORTS COULD INHIBIT
Believe that every obstacle, almost certainly come from within oneself. Each obstacle will be to sabotage to prevent yourself from taking action.
Actions are all activities that make your life better. Recipe of success is action, and to be able to act, you need confidence.
SYSTEMATIC LIFE
Systematic means the efficient and effective. With confidence, you will act. And act on the basis of confidence, will make you able to take decisions and make choices. With that ability, your actions will be precise, accurate, efficient and effective.
LEARNING CAPABILITY IMPROVEMENT
Your life is your school. The way you learn to follow two patterns, namely the formation and shaping alias alias modeling example. Confidence will make you become more capable of doing self-development, development and improvement, and more capable in taking the role models and perform a variety of innovations as it goes.
SURE WILL FUNCTION OF SELF
With confidence, you will be more sure that overall you are going to function properly. With confidence you will be able to push yourself to the total, maximal and optimal. With all that, you will reach self-sufficiency and independence.
FOCUS ON THE OUTSIDE WORLD
Insecure due to the busy days of worrying about yourself. With confidence, you will be busy with the outside world. With confidence you will become a more service, more useful, and more give value to the outside world.
With confidence you will be oriented out. With confidence, you will be more successful in leading and sell.
LIFE MORE COMFORTABLE AND FUN
With confidence you'll likely enjoy yourself, enjoy the outside world. Your life will be full of excitement, with little concern. Your world will be more comfortable and enjoyable. With confidence, you can create a 'live life'.
POSITIVE MESSAGE
With confidence, you will communicate to the world outside of you. With confidence, you will make others become confident. With confidence, you will be more convincing. Confidence is the message. The message is very important to be communicated to people involved with you. With confident, once again you will be successful in leading and sell.
GROWING OPPORTUNITIES FOR CHARISMA
With confidence, you are a big chance to grow the maximum level of confidence, the charisma. With confidence, you will create a path to be the one who always heard the word and command.
CONFIDENCE where it comes from?
Confidence comes from the ability to communicate verbally, by talking.
By talking, you talk to yourself and talk to other people.
Talking to yourself will run the self-management process. You're the one who best knows what to say to yourself.
"I can" or "I can not".
"I will succeed" or "I will fail."
"I must do this" or "I really want this."
"I am a decisive" or "No I am a decisive".
"I chose" or "Other people choose."
"It's up to Me" or "It's up to others."
Talking to others going through the process of self-management of others.
"You have to do this or have to be so".
"I ask you to do this or that."
"I want the results so or so".
"I decide, not you who decide."
"I have a rule you are to follow."
"I have sold and you are buying."
"If you want to be successful, follow the advice I".
So start all your success with confidence when speaking.
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